Opinion / Andrew Tuck
Mother courage
On Tuesday, Melania Trump spoke at the Republican convention and, to the surprise of some, dipped a careful toe into the issue of race relations. The First Lady attempted to address the anger, and the demands for police reform, that have been unleashed in the wake of the killing of George Floyd by officers in Minnesota in May. “I urge people to come together in a civil manner so we can work and live up to our standard American ideals,” she said. Was it a call for real change? Or a suggestion that people should stop getting so upset?
The same day, another woman stood in front of the microphones to make a speech. It was one that no aide had finessed, yet it was one that – in its simplicity, devastating calm and searing call for forgiveness – shook those who heard it.
Julia Jackson is the mother of Jacob Blake, who was shot in the back on Sunday by police officers in Kenosha, Wisconsin. The 29-year-old black man lies in hospital, his spinal cord shattered. But there stood Ms Jackson (pictured), ready to talk to the press, and the words just flowed. “I have beautiful brown skin but take a look at your hand and whatever shade it is, it is beautiful as well,” she began. “God did not make one type of tree or flower or fish or horse or grass or rock. How dare you ask him to make one kind of human who looks just like you.” There was pain, surely some anger, but then this: “To all of the police officers, I am praying for you and your families.”
It’s extraordinary how many mothers faced with such dreadful moments are so often touched by eloquence that no speechwriter could aspire to – and also by an unnerving refusal to be cowed by the urge for revenge.
During testimonies given in recent days at the trial in Christchurch, New Zealand, of Brenton Tarrant, who killed 51 people in the infamous mosque shooting, we heard from Janna Ezat, whose son was murdered. “I have decided to forgive you, Mr Tarrant,” she told him. “Because I don’t have hate, I don’t have revenge.” Another mother whose grief would not fester. But.
Well, the “but” is that we have had enough of mothers forced to be heroes and we can only hope that Ms Jackson’s words add to the demands for a fundamental shift in US policing that will in turn put an end to these stories, these moments in the glare.