Opinion / Fiona Wilson
Start them young
If you’ve been perusing Netflix recently, you might have noticed the addition of the awkwardly named “Old Enough” (“Hajimete no Otsukai”), a Japanese programme that follows children as young as two or three being sent out by parents on their first errand. This show, which has been running for years, seems to baffle most non-Japanese viewers but here in Japan, where children are taught to be independent from an early age, it makes perfect sense.
Over 10 nail-biting minutes, viewers see whether young Hiroki (2 years and 9 months) will manage the 2km round trip to the supermarket and remember all the things he’s supposed to buy; or if easily distracted Yuta will ever make that jug of fresh mandarin juice and deliver it to his mother and grandfather, who are busy picking said fruits in the family orchard. Almost incidentally, the show offers a glimpse of everyday Japanese life. Naoki and Seina are sent to buy dango rice dumplings and a good-luck charm from a Shinto shrine, while Yuka is sent shopping for tempura and udon noodles in Akashi fish market. The commentary is gently hilarious: “Ooh, check out her laid-back housewife style.”
The children learn the cost of groceries, how to interact with other people and how to navigate their hometowns. I felt for Yuka’s mother, who was tearful as she sent her shy daughter on her way. I know how much I struggled to let my kids walk to and from their Japanese school on their own – and I admit, there were times when I spied on them from behind lampposts. It made me smile to see a “dangerous behaviour” note on the screen. Seen from here, though, these tiny tots are learning self-reliance, a life skill that will stand them in good stead for bigger tasks ahead.