Opinion / Louis Harnett O’Meara
Foot in both camps
When I was young, living in England, I remember my brother planting an Irish flag on top of our Christmas tree, smiling at what he saw to be an innocent expression of our family’s heritage. “Get it down,” my grandma scolded when she saw it, asking what on earth he supposed the neighbours would think. Having spent years as an Irish Catholic woman in the UK during the Troubles, she knew the violence associated with a nationalist cause and its effect on those born of another nation.
As for me, I am to all intents and purposes British. But when I marked my census form last month, I would be lying if I said my cursor didn’t hover for a moment over “Irish”. I am entitled to an Irish passport, much of my extended family lives across the Irish Sea and as a child I spent Easter and summer holidays on the west coast of the isle. Having lived between many different cities and countries growing up, Ireland has in some ways always served as home.
And so the headlines of continuing sectarian violence in Northern Ireland this past week have left me shaken: a bus petrol-bombed in Belfast, police assaulted, a journalist attacked, assailants as young as 13. The root causes are deep and have to do with a divergence of identity, just as Brexit – a destabilising factor in this scenario too – has been for many in the UK. From experience I can say that to claim oneself as solely from one place, at the exclusion of another, doesn’t always help matters. Is it possible to be both Irish and British, and for those identities to live harmoniously alongside one another. I’m proud of all aspects of who I am, just as my grandma was. But perhaps, for now at least, let’s put away the flags.