Opinion / Olga Tokariuk
War story
Three months after Russia’s full-scale invasion of Ukraine I was invited to attend several events in EU countries – a surreal experience to say the least. For one thing, it took me almost 24 hours to arrive (by land) in Warsaw, from where I continued towards Austria, Italy, Belgium and then back to Ukraine via Romania. As our bus stopped at the border between Ukraine and Poland, I found myself thinking that this is now a border between war and peace, between an EU and Nato country and one that remains in a grey zone outside the Western security architecture.
Even the sounds are different: once you cross, you stop hearing air-raid sirens; the sound of planes flying above is no longer intimidating. The war seems so distant in these countries. Life continues as normal, with busy cafés and banners advertising summer-holiday packages – a luxury for Ukrainians. And while we remain on top of the media agenda and international summits, a growing war fatigue is palpable too. Ukrainians, by contrast, don’t have the privilege of getting tired of war. Daily reminders include those air-raid sirens, new Russian missile strikes, funerals of fallen soldiers and desperate pleas for donations from volunteers helping the army and civilians. War is very personal; we have all lost people. It’s not just dry numbers and news. It is raw and painful.
I saw a lot of signs of solidarity in Europe: Ukrainian flags are everywhere. But what I found missing, with the exception of Poland, was a sense of urgency. Every day of war means hundreds of lives lost – lives of my country’s best and brightest. That’s why Ukrainians are insisting that weapons be sent immediately, to prevent us from losing more talent. I was trying to tell those stories as best as I could on this trip but after several weeks without sirens and in safe surroundings, I was relieved to cross back into war-torn Ukraine. This country is my home; its suffering and uncertain future is mine as well.
Olga Tokariuk is Monocle’s Ukraine correspondent.