Summer brings with it a plant-watering ritual that eases my transition from day to evening. I cycle home, open the garage door and pull out the hose (not a euphemism) and, for the pots beyond its trajectory, bring out the watering can. David hears my arrival and unlatches the front door, allowing Macy to run into the mews to greet me. I shout up to the open window of our neighbour Leo’s flat, telling him that I’m back and that he’s needed on hose duty. “I’ll be right down!” he says, poking his head out of the window. Then, the four of us tend to our thirsty verdant friends (frankly, Macy’s input is woeful), while discussing the day and drinking up the compliments from people walking past our floral display. It’s perfect. Except Leo’s gone and spoilt it.
Last Friday, I ditched the other half and went solo to Mallorca; he’s about to be in a play and is banned from leaving the country until July. See ya! On Sunday morning I drove out of Palma, heading eastwards to the town of Felanitx, to explore and use my new camera. Just as the town edged into sight, my phone rang. It was David. I came off the highway and parked in a country lane so that I could answer. His voice was breaking, “Leo’s dead.”
Last week was just a usual week in Leo’s life. Each morning, he got dressed in a perfectly ironed shirt, neatly pressed trousers and a nice pair of loafers, setting off at a measured pace to buy the newspaper and settle down for coffee in one of our neighbourhood cafés. La Fromagerie on Lamb’s Conduit Street was the current clear favourite. It had, after all, organised, with the help of lovely Maggie, a surprise 88th birthday breakfast for him just a couple of weeks ago. Then, during the day, he would no doubt have watched the races, rugby or some gloriously trashy TV. People would have dropped round. And then, later, post-watering, there might have been the ballet, theatre or just a good dinner with his extensive network of friends of all ages.
Just one thing was different. On Saturday he was to have a small lump removed from the back of his head, nothing to worry about. Post-op, with me away, David kept an eye on him and, that evening, went in to see Leo who said that he was feeling a bit rough and was going to get an early night. David phoned him at 6.30 and there was no answer – Leo must be tucked up. Next morning, the phone again went unanswered, so David let himself in. Leo had never moved from the sofa.
We have lived on our street some 19 years but Leo had been resident in his apartment for decades. When we moved in, he was already in his seventies but still working as a butler for a barristers’ chambers. He only gave this up when his knees started giving him gip. This part of his working life came after stints as a dresser for the films at Pinewood Studios and for theatres in the West End (from Noël Coward to Joan Collins, he had met them all).
While there was always friendship and trips to the flower market, it was the coronavirus pandemic that made the connection with Leo special – and not just for us. Our mews pulled together in amazing ways during the lockdowns. A young couple, Matt and Hollie, also adopted Leo. None of us did this because Leo couldn’t cope but because he was fun to be around. We were quite the Covid-era team.
But there was something else. I admired him. His mind was undimmed, his humour razor-sharp, his openness to life astounding. One night, after a theatre excursion, we shared an Uber back to the mews and, during the ride, Leo got talking about how he had left Ireland as a young man, hoping to find work and a better life in London, as well as the prejudice that he had encountered back then. As the car pulled up, the driver, a Somali-born man, turned to Leo and said, “I enjoyed listening to you talk because your story is my story.” Leo put his hand on the man’s shoulder and they shared a moment of recognition and a few gentle words across cultures, ages.
When I got home to the mews on Tuesday night, I stopped for a minute in the road, staring up at Leo’s now-closed window. If I shouted loud enough, might he come downstairs for one final dousing of our shared plants? One last banter. “Leo! I’m home!”